Help Us Prove We Physically Exist

Bruce Sterling and Jasmina Tesanovic Request Your Moral Support

The “Exotic Enemies Do Get Married” Campaign

by Bruce Sterling and Jasmina Tesanovic

Surprising news has just arrived for us at our American home address. Although we have been married for four years now, the American Immigration services can’t find any paper trail for the two of us.

We have no joint bank account, no insurance accounts and no joint children. The authorities therefore suspect that our marriage is a phony “Green Card marriage,” and they would like to have Jasmina deported from the USA.

This is not too entirely surprising a mistake, since we’re an Internet couple. By our nature, we just don’t generate much paper.

We use electronic banking. Bruce uses American banks, while Jasmina uses Serbian banks. Why would anyone want to make his or her alien spouse use an American or Serbian bank?

There’s no reason for us to jointly speculate in American real-estate, since we each already own places to live. No sane European would ever want American health insurance. And so forth.

Like a lot of geek couples, we live out of our cellphones and laptops. Furniture, wedding china, massive home improvement loans: we don’t even go there. We have a light material footprint that’ll generally fit onto a couple of rollaboards.

We’re nevertheless a genuine married couple. Any reasonable Internet person would recognize this fact in two minutes.

What proof can we offer to you, the Internet websurfer?

Well, Wikipedia says! When have they ever been known to err?

We got married in the LAX Airport in late 2005. BoingBoing’s Xeni Jardin was our bridesmaid. That online news source gets more unique hits than TIME magazine!

Here’s a phantomlike, immaterial, electronic photo of our signed, sealed, certified, entirely legal paper marriage license.

Bruce’s new novel THE CARYATIDS is dedicated “To Jasmina,” not the sort of thing authors generally do as part of an illicit human-trafficking scheme.

We’ve been together so long now that we’re starting to look like each other. Older friends of ours will recognize that this didn’t use to be so.

However, the American immigration authorities would rather prefer more cogent assurances than a blog post.

Luckily, even people without a consumer tonnage of joint material possessions can establish that they are married — if enough people say so.

We must therefore implore your help. Have you ever witnessed the two of us hanging around together? Were you convinced that we’re the real deal, spouse-wise? Do you have solemn, impressive, legal-looking letterhead? For instance, are you some kind of American federal agent yourself? Lord knows we know some.

If so, then, please — write to the American authorities, using your own letterhead. Please tell them we are, indeed, a “bona fide marriage.” You are addressing the “UNITED STATES CITIZENSHIP AND IMMIGRATION SERVICES” in Vermont, USA.

Then send us a dot-pdf or a scan of your paper. We will truck them over to our lawyer. She is offering a possible template you might care to use. It’s in the next blog post.

Please get cracking. The immigration feds are eager to bring out the hounds. April 15, 2009 is your deadline.

We would do the same favor for you. In fact, if you will send us a scanned copy of your letter attesting to our marriage, we will sentimentally treasure that for years to come.

Bruce Sterling —

Jasmina Tesanovic —

Then, if you ever end up in our weird situation — (we know you’re not planning that, but frankly, neither did we) — then we solemnly pledge, right here and now, that we WILL do the same favor for you.

We will write to your national authorities — whoever they are, wherever they are — and we will bear witness to your union and your desire to go about your joint existence. Gay marriages welcome! As a Serb married to a Texan, we’re not fussy and judgmental about any of that stuff!

Consider this an investment in our planet’s marital future! It may be, in glittering days of tomorrow, that almost EVERYONE will be married to some foreigner — yes, just like noted futurologists Bruce Sterling, Pat Cadigan, William Gibson and Cory Doctorow! There is clearly a groundswell here! People whose intimate relations are primarily electronic need to mobilize!

Will you help us to deal with this, please? And spread the word about our situation? Thank you very much.

Yours sincerely, Jasmina Tesanovic and Bruce Sterling

Our Immigration Lawyer Suggests This Template

AFFIDAVIT OF __________________

STATE OF _____________

COUNTY OF ___________

STATE OF ____________

NATION OF _____________

Before me, the undersigned notary public, personally appeared ________________ and on his/her oath declared as follows: (((if you happen to have one of these notary people around, they can be legally handy; otherwise just take this document as your guideline)))

1. My name is _______________________. I am over the age of 21 years and am fully competent to make this affidavit. I have personal knowledge of the facts stated herein, and all such facts are true and correct.

2. I am ________[describe how you know or are related to Bruce and Jasmina]. I have known Bruce Sterling since _________. I have known Jasmina Tesanovic since _________.

3. I have had the opportunity to observe Bruce and Jasmina since they have been married. Bruce and Jasmina gave every indication that their decision to marry was because they were in love and wanted to be together.

4. I have seen Bruce and Jasmina together [give examples of occasions when they attended events together as husband and wife, or otherwise held themselves out as husband and wife]

5. [Conclude with why you are convinced the marriage of Bruce and Jasmina is a marriage based on love.]


[Signature of Affiant]

[Address of Affiant]

About jasminatesanovic

Jasmina Tešanović (Serbian: Јасмина Тешановић) (born March 7, 1954) is a feminist, political activist (Women in Black, Code Pink), translator, publisher and filmmaker. She was one of the organizers of the first Feminist conference in Eastern Europe "Drug-ca Zena" in 1978, in Belgrade. With Slavica Stojanovic, she ran the first feminist publishing house in the Balkans "Feminist 94" for 10 years. She is the author of Diary of a Political Idiot, a war diary written during the 1999 Kosovo War and widely distributed on the Internet. Ever since then she has been publishing all her work, diaries, stories and films on blogs and other Internet media.
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